Category: Muscular Tension

How Active Body Awareness in the Alexander Technique Transforms Your Life

9/11/2025

Have you heard of the Alexander Technique? It's a most beautiful method that teaches how improving awareness of your own body can be a profound tool for creating lasting positive changes in your life.

This growing awareness is, in fact, one of the most valuable outcomes of the practice. At first glance it might seem overly simple: noticing how you stand, shift into walking, sit, type, reach and move throughout the day.

The deeper you go into observing yourself though, the more you realize what's so amazing about your body: Not only how connected every part of your body is to your overall wellbeing but also how important the smallest parts of you are for everything to work harmoniously.

For me, the opening up into this active self-awareness has been deeply transformative, showing me solutions and insights to problems I did not even know existed!

Take for example the connection of my persistent neck pain to how I was using my attention while working at the computer. I learned that the root cause of that pain and discomfort was the way I overextended and stiffened my neck, held my breath and contorted my spine each time I tried to read a smaller font in a scientific paper.

And I had absolutely no idea that I was doing that!

But once I knew it to be true I could not unsee or un-feel it, which was the beginning of changing and adjusting how I looked at my screen by way of using alternative, less stressful ways of sitting and reading.

I used reason and emotion - a powerful combination for breakthroughs to be truly possible. This kind of awareness does take practice, and trouble shooting skills don't develop overnight.

It’s a practice just like learning to play an instrument which also requires an ongoing relationship with your own body. Each day brings new opportunities to tune in, ask questions, and explore how you're moving through the world and how that in fact affects your everyday wellbeing.

This is what these explorations could be like: "How am I standing right now, and can I balance with a little bit more ease?" "As I can see my raised shoulders in the mirror, what have I been thinking about, and can I let go of that thought?" "If my right hip is aching, what might I be doing elsewhere that's supporting that discomfort?"

These are powerful, transformative questions.

They are the beginning of inquiries that can lead to profound shifts in how you feel and function. It’s like running continuous diagnostics on your body. It's like checking in with yourself, not in a obsessive or anxious way but in a gentle, curious and supportive manner.

These small moments of awareness offer us a choice: To re-adjust, and to find better comfort and balance, time and time again. The truth is, life will always throw things at us. We will react, sometimes gracefully, sometimes not so much. We’re all on autopilot much of the time just trying to get through the day.

But the difference comes when you bring conscious, guided awareness into the equation. Instead of being swept away by unconscious habits and tension you have the ability to step back, reassess, and make confident choices.

This is the essence of the Alexander Technique: helping you to notice your body’s signals so you can unravel the tension and discomfort that inevitably accumulates throughout the day, and kick it in the butt before it causes pain and decline in your body's daily function.

Whether it’s adjusting your posture at your desk, or releasing tension in your shoulders after a stressful conversation, this new awareness allows you to reset and realign yourself with intention that makes sense to your body.

But one of the most powerful aspects of this practice is that it shifts your relationship with yourself. Instead of feeling like your body is something you need to battle against because it seems like it's betraying you with pain or discomfort, you start to see your body as ally.

And boy, this shift in perception is liberating!

It transforms how we move through our day, both physically and emotionally. Suddenly, we’re not just reacting to life’s challenges; we’re responding with awareness and choice.

Ultimately, the Alexander Technique offers a way to navigate life with more ease, grace, and awareness that matters.

Over time, this amazing work creates a ripple effect of transformation not only in your physical experience but also your emotional and mental well-being.

In a world that keeps pushing us to move faster, do more, and ignore our own needs, the Alexander Technique offers a refreshing alternative. It invites us to slow down, tune in, and become more mindful of how we’re going about living in our bodies.

And in doing so it gives us the tools to create a life that feels balanced, comfortable and aligned with who we truly are.

I Stretch Every Day. Why Am I Still Tense?

6/30/2025

If you’re still tense after taking yoga classes, you're not alone. The layers of everyday tension go deep, and feeling tense again soon after your class is not because you’re inflexible, or because you don’t “get” Yoga.

The real reason is that your body is doing something in the background that you’re not yet aware of.

And this is something to celebrate because it means that the problem is NOT your body. Rather it is the way your movement system is coordinating itself. And that can be changed! Your postural system relies on patterns of balance and movement that you have repeatedly practiced over years.

For example, if you tense your shoulders each time you reach for an object, you will also tense your shoulders each time you reach down to your yoga mat. Over time, your tense shoulders will affect your neck and spine, rib cage and pelvis, and mess with their balance. These are the kinds of “hidden” patterns that dictate your posture and ability to move.

The good news are that as soon as you learn how to redirect those hidden, unconscious patterns by making them conscious with the help of a highly trained embodied posture coach, things will start to shift without needing to stretch deeper, or you putting in more effort.

It’s about doing less: less effort, less “trying hard”, less going for an end and more enjoying the process, more awareness for the present moment experience of your body. It’s about creating less tension to begin with. It’s about understanding what set’s you up for tension, the origin of tension in your mind, your emotions, your muscles, your thinking.

Physical tension is not something that can be fixed with exercises because ultimately, it's a mental issue that needs the right kind of targeted self-awareness to prevent it from happening. And as soon as you become aware you have new choices that help your body to let go on its own.

When you learn to move with less effort, a whole new space opens up inside and around you, literally and figuratively. **That’s the root of true flexibility: not how much or how deep you can stretch but the choice to use less effort.

This is a process you can learn by joining my private 1x1 DISCOVER YOUR EFFORTLESS BODY program.** If you want to learn more click here.❤️

Why Popular Attempts To Fix Your Posture Don’t Work (And What To Do Instead)

3/6/2025

Have you ever spent countless of hours at a doctor’s therapy office or the gym repeating exercises aimed at relaxing or strengthening your aching muscles and joints, hoping it would get you out of pain and fix your posture?

But nothing made a lasting positive impact on your well-being...

Does it feel crazy that your body seems to always revert back to your old patterns of slouching, stiffening and tensing up? You correct yourself for a while, but soon enough, you’re right back where you started.

Consider this:

1. Posture cannot be improved by exercising ‘weak’ or relaxing “tense” muscles because there is a reason why they act the way they do. That reason are your whole-body, dysfunctional movement patterns.

2. Posture cannot be ‘fixed’ by forcing your body into a certain position and then holding it there, because it's unnatural and creates more tension and stiffness.

How posture works

Your posture works through a holistic set of processes that are happening in your sensory and nervous systems, and that are directly influenced by the way you move and think.

Imbalances in your musculoskeletal system are the result of the unconscious messages your muscles receive from your brain that cause dysfunction in how your body operates.

So the real million dollar question is this: How can you use your mind and thinking to develop movement patterns that promote a superb functioning for your body as a whole?

How can you develop a use of your musculoskeletal system that makes you feel balanced and empowered? How can you work more skillfully with your awareness so that your body is adaptive and free to do what you really want it to do, and not held back by dis-ease and limitations?

If you want to improve the way you move, look and feel (your posture!), pay attention to how you guide and direct your body into activity. Think of your body as one unified whole, not a bunch of isolated muscles that you somehow need to manipulate.

Muscular dysfunction must be addressed on the level of consciousness and thought because muscles are merely the 'actors' and 'responders' to the way you think - they're not the 'directors' who holds the whole vision.

It is never too early or too late to learn how to let your posture support you effortlessly for life!

All you need is a simple learning process that helps you to recognize & address the repetitive and dysfunctional patterns that shape how you move, stand, and sit every day so that they not only become functional but promote balance, lightness and ease for your body.

This is the foundation of the Alexander Technique—an educational discipline and body of work that helps your posture to become something you experience, map, guide and enjoy, not something you force.

If you want to learn more about holistic posture improvement go to walkinbalance.net or click here to set up a complimentary New Posture Consultation call and learn how I can help you improve your posture, now and forever.

Letting Go Of The Fear of Letting Go

8/17/2024

One of the most common misconceptions about muscle tension is the belief that if you let go, you will fall apart. This fear is rooted in the idea that your body is rigid and fragile.

The reality is that your body is designed to move in powerful ways, dynamically, and in fluid patterns, spirally.

You are made for adaptability and movement, not stiffness. Taking this fact to heart will help you discover your innate ability for balance and support as you move through life.

But if there is a lack of self-trust, you may become fearful that your body will unravel into chaos if you let go of your familiar muscular tension. Holding tight might seem like a good idea, and while this fear is understandable, it isn’t how your body works.

Your body works with dynamic ease and unity if it is allowed to find natural balance with the ground beneath your feet. This balance will enable you to gradually let go of all your unnecessary muscular tension. Your body will automatically know how to do this because it will feel safe. There is nothing you need to be 'doing', but once it's happening your body will find a pleasant, more expansive state, and start to connect with a broader sense of physical ease and belonging.

It is the most practical and liberating learning experience you can have with your body, and one I have been teaching for over 20 years.

Contact me if you like to learn more. I offer free transformative posture consultations.

How Active Body Awareness in the Alexander Technique Transforms Your Life

I Stretch Every Day. Why Am I Still Tense?

Why Popular Attempts To Fix Your Posture Don’t Work (And What To Do Instead)

Letting Go Of The Fear of Letting Go

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